First of all, the convention in linear algebra is to express vector $x$ as a $n\times 1$ matrix. Conforming to this would reduce some confusion while doing complicated matrix algebra.
I convinced myself with the following two steps while struggling the first year of grad school, and hope it helps you.
Step1
before getting to the expression, I guess you had already met
$$
\dfrac {\partial Ax}{\partial x^T}=A
$$
let me explain this one first.
define $g(x): \mathbb R^n \rightarrow \mathbb R^m$ where the $i^{th}$ element of $g$ is $g_i(x_1,x_2,...,x_n)$. Then we call it "Jacobian", the $m\times n$ matrix of first partial derivative :
$$
\dfrac {\partial g(x)}{\partial x^T}=\dfrac {\partial (g_1,g_2,...,g_m)}{\partial (x_1,x_2,...,x_n)}
$$
where element in row i and column j is $g_{ij}=\dfrac {\partial g_i(x_1,x_2,...,x_n)}{\partial x_j}$
Now, let $g(x)=Ax$, then
$$
g_i(x_1,x_2,...,x_n)=a_{i1}x_{i1}+a_{i2}x_{i2}+...+a_{in}x_{in}
$$
and we get $\dfrac {\partial g_i(x_1,x_2,...,x_n)}{\partial x_j}=a_{ij}$
which means $\dfrac {\partial Ax}{\partial x^T}=A$
Step2
note that $x^TAx=x^T(Ax)$, using the product rule:
$$
\dfrac {\partial g^T h}{\partial x^T}= h^T \dfrac {\partial g}{\partial x^T}+g^T \dfrac {\partial h}{\partial x^T}
$$
we get
$$
\begin{align}
\dfrac {\partial x^TAx}{\partial x^T}&=(Ax)^T\dfrac {\partial x}{\partial x^T}+x^T\dfrac {\partial (Ax)}{\partial x^T}\\
&=x^TA^T+x^TA\\
&=x^T(A+A^T)\\
&=2x^TA
\end{align}
$$
the last line comes form the symmetry of $A$.
ps. many Ph.D. students in econ or some other fields still don't know why it is true, based on my observation...