I'm sure there are much more elegant ways of doing it, but here goes:
\begin{align}
\sum_{r=0}^\nu a_r \binom{\nu}{r} \Delta^r b_i &= \sum_{r=0}^\nu a_r \binom{\nu}{r} \sum_{j=0}^r \binom{r}{j}(-1)^{r-j}b_{i+j} \\
&= \sum_{j=0}^\nu b_{i+j} \sum_{r=j}^\nu a_r \binom{\nu}{r} \binom{r}{j}(-1)^{r-j} \\
&= \sum_{j=0}^\nu b_{i+j} \sum_{r=0}^{\nu-j} a_{r+j} \binom{\nu}{r+j} \binom{r+j}{j} (-1)^r \\
&= \sum_{j=0}^\nu b_{i+j} \binom{\nu}{j} \sum_{r=0}^{\nu-j} a_{r+j} \binom{\nu-j}{r}(-1)^r \\
&= \sum_{j=0}^\nu b_{i+j} \binom{\nu}{j} (-1)^{\nu-j} \sum_{r=0}^{\nu-j}\binom{\nu-j}{r}(-1)^{\nu-j-r}a_{r+j} \\
&= \sum_{j=0}^\nu b_{i+j} \binom{\nu}{j} (-1)^{\nu-j} \Delta^{\nu-j}a_j.
\end{align}
Explanation of each step:
(1) Expand $\Delta^r b_i$ using the definition.
(2) Swap the sums: This changes $\sum_{r=0}^\nu \sum_{j=0}^r$ into $\sum_{j=0}^\nu \sum_{r=j}^\nu$.
(3) Shift the second sum so that it starts from $r=0$: This changes every $r$ into $r+j$.
(4) Use the fact that $\binom{\nu}{r+j} \binom{r+j}{j} = \binom{\nu}{j} \binom{\nu-j}{r}$.
(5) Note that $(-1)^r = (-1)^{-r} = (-1)^{2(\nu-j)}(-1)^{-r} = (-1)^{\nu-j}(-1)^{\nu-j-r}$.
(6) Use the definition to contract the second sum into $\Delta^{\nu-j}a_j$.