I'm really confused about the concept of Reflexive and Symmetric relations. for an example from my textbook:
Let A = {b, c, d, e} and the relation on 'A' be defined as R = {(b,b),(b,c),(c,b),(c,c),(d,d),(b,d),(d,b),(c,d),(d,c)}
The book claims that the above relation is not reflexive, because by its definition, xRx must be true for all x ∈ A, however the pair (e,e) is not in R, so R is not reflexive.
But! The book also claimed that the relation above IS symmetric because R contains: bRc and cRb, bRd and dRb, dRc and cRd....but I can use the same argument that it made for the reflexive definition "for ALL of x,y ∈ A" and in this case, the relation R does not have (bRe and eRb), (cRe and eRc), (dRe and eRd) and etc... in the set R...
This is what I'm really confused about; why is R not reflexive because it doesn't have the element "e" in R, and on the other hand R is symmetric while R don't contain "e" at all? I mean the definition of symmetric is xRy -> yRx for ALL x,y ∈ A.
Thanks