We have the following theorem :
Let $P:H\to H$ be a bounded linear map on a complex vector space satisfying $P^2=P$. Then the following are equivalent: $(1)$ $P$ is self-adjoint $(2)$ $P$ is normal $(3)$ $x-Px$ is orthogonal to $Px$ for every $x\in H$. Also, if these conditions hold then $P$ is the orthogonal projection onto its image.
Now I was trying to find a linear bounded map that satisfies none of these, but failed to do so. What would be an easy to see example of such a map that is not orthogonal projection? (The reason I stated the theorem is because now we know that it is equivalent to find such a map that is not self-adjoint)