Observe that it is a point in the affine plane (dimension 2) which corresponds to a line in a vector space of dimension 3. The points of a projective plane are just vector lines in this vector space.
As a vector line is defined by a single vector, which be chosen as you like, provided it is non-zero, it explains why ‘the (non-zero) scaling is unimportant’. So a point in the projective plane is defined by the ratios of its three coordinates, $(X:Y:T)$, for which not all three coordinates are $0$. If $t\ne 0$, one gets back a points of the affine plane with the map $\;(X:Y:T) \longmapsto \Bigl(x=\dfrac XT, y=\dfrac YT\Bigr)$. Conversely, a point $(x,,y)$ in the affine plane corresponds to the points $(x:y:1)$ in the projective plane. The point with projective coordinates $(x:y:0)$ are considered as the ‘point at infinity’ in the direction $(x,y)$.