If I have a function $f = v^TAv$, I can compute its derivative w.r.t. $v$ as follows
$$ \begin{align} f &= \sum_i \sum_j A_{ij}v_iv_j \\ \frac{\delta f}{\delta v_k} &= \sum_j A_{kj}v_j + \sum_i A_{ik}v_i \\ &= A_{k,:}v + vA_{:,k} \\ \frac{\delta f}{\delta v} &= (A + A^T)v. \end{align}$$
This is how I learnt how to compute the derivative wrt a vector. How can I compute derivative wrt a matrix ?
More specifically, what is $\dfrac{\delta f}{\delta A_{nm}}$? And how do I convert the result to a matrix?