It is easy to show that the first condition implies that $<$ on $\Bbb Q$ is either the usual order or the reverse of the usual order.
Consider $\Bbb R$ to be a vector space over the ordered field $\Bbb Q.$ Let $B$ be a vector-space (Hamel) basis for $\Bbb R$ over $\Bbb Q$. For each $x\in \Bbb R$ there exists a unique $f_x:B\to \Bbb Q $ such that (i) $\{b\in B: f_x(b)\ne 0\}$ is finite, and (ii) $x=\sum_{b\in B}bf_x(b).$
Let $<$ be an order on $\Bbb Q$ that obeys the first condition. Let $<_W$ be any well-ordering of $B$. Now for $x,y\in \Bbb R$ with $x\ne y$ let $b_0$ be the $<_W$-least $b\in B$ such that $f_x(b)\ne f_y(b).$ And define $x<'y \iff f_x(b_0)<f_y(b_0).$ Then $<'$ obeys the first condition. Since there are many different well-orders on the set $B$ there are many different linear orders on $\Bbb R$ that obey the first condition.
BTW. Some proper sub-fields of $\Bbb R$ can be ordered fields with orders different from the usual order, but obeying the first and second conditions. E.g. $\{a+b\sqrt 2\;: a,b\in \Bbb Q\}$ with $1>0>\sqrt 2\;.$