Consider $M = \{ A \in \mathbb R^{2,2}: A = A^T\}$ and $\langle A,B \rangle := \operatorname{tr}(A^T B)$ which is a scalar product on $\mathbb R^{2,2}$ and induces $\|A\|_{F} = \sqrt{\langle A,A \rangle}$. The task is to find $\min_{B \in M} \|A - B\|_F$.
Apparently, one forms an orthonormal basis of $M$, let's say $\{B_1,B_2,B_3\}$, and then solves the normal equation $\sum_{j=1}^3 \alpha_j \langle B_i,B_j \rangle = \langle A,B_i \rangle$ for $A^* = \alpha_1 B_1 + \alpha_2 B_2 + \alpha_3 B_3$ which is our candidate.
Q: I don't understand why this approach works because the normal equation I know is given by $A^TAx = A^Tb$. There is also the Theorem of Mirsky-Schmidt which gives the best rank $s$ approximation but that requires the singular value decomposition.