I am a bit confused with the definition of a suspension. This the definition.
For a space $X$, denote $SX$ the suspension of $X$ in which this is the quotient space $$\frac{X \times I}{\sim}$$ where $\sim$ is the equivalence of relation of $X \times \{0\}$ and $X \times \{1\}$ collapsed to a point.
The typical example is to set $X = S^n$. For $n = 1$, this is a "cylinder". What I don't understand is that why when we collapsed the top and end point of the cylinder our quotient space immediately becomes a "double-cone"? For example let's say $X \times \{1\} \to \{x_1 \} \times \{1 \}$ and $X \times \{0\} \to \{x_2\} \times \{0\}$. I don't understand why suddenly points close to $0$ and $1$ "shrink". For example, at $X \times \{3/4\}$, the "cone' picture depicts $S^1$ with a smaller radius.
To clarify what the problem is when we "shrink", at $\{3/4\}$ $X$ is no longer $S^n$
If the above example is too diffuclt to explain, we can work with $X = I$, so that $(X \times I) / {\sim}$ is a "diamond" on $\mathbb{R}^2$
