Even if you don't have gimusi's insight into considering the conjugate equation, it's possible to "plod" through to a solution.
Let $z = x + yi$. Ultimately, we want to set $y=0$ for the real root(s), but for now, let's do the algebra. $z^2 = x^2 - y^2 + 2xyi$, so the equation becomes:
$$(2-3i)(x^2-y^2+2xyi) - (d-1)(x+yi) + 4+3i = 0$$
$$2(x^2 - y^2) + 4xyi - 3(x^2-y^2)i + 6xy - (d-1)x - (d-1)yi + 4 + 3i = 0$$
And here it should be intuitive that we need to gather terms and set the real and imaginary parts separately to zero.
$$2(x^2 - y^2) + 6xy - (d-1)x + 4 = 0$$
$$4xy - 3(x^2 - y^2) - (d-1)y + 3 = 0$$
Set $y = 0$ in both equations. The second immediately yields: $x = \pm 1$. Substituting these two possible values for $x$ into the first equation yields the two possible values $d = -5, 7$.