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\begin{align}
&\bbox[10px,#ffd]{\ds{\iint_{\mathbb{R}^2}
\pars{1 - \expo{-xy} \over xy}^{2}\expo{-x^{2} - y^{2}}\dd x\,\dd y}}
\\[5mm] = &\
\int_{-\infty}^{\infty}\int_{-\infty}^{\infty}\
\overbrace{\pars{\int_{0}^{1}\expo{-xya}\dd a}}
^{\ds{\expo{-xy} - 1 \over -xy}}\
\overbrace{\pars{\int_{0}^{1}\expo{-xyb}\dd b}}
^{\ds{\expo{-xy} - 1 \over -xy}}
\expo{-x^{2} - y^{2}}\dd x\,\dd y
\\[5mm] = &\
\int_{0}^{1}\int_{0}^{1}\
\overbrace{\int_{-\infty}^{\infty}\int_{-\infty}^{\infty}
\exp\pars{-x^{2} - \bracks{a + b}xy - y^{2}}\dd x\,\dd y}
^{\ds{2\pi \over \root{4 - \pars{a + b}^{2}}}}\
\,\dd a\,\dd b
\\[5mm] = &\
2\pi\int_{0}^{1}\int_{0}^{1}{\dd a\,\dd b \over \root{4 - \pars{a + b}^{2}}} =
\bbx{{4 \over 3}\,\pi\pars{3 - 3\root{3} + \pi}} \approx 3.9603
\end{align}