Let $X$ be a continuous random variable with probability density function $f_X$. The way that I think about the meaning of $f_X$ is this: if $\Delta x$ is a small positive number then $$ P(X \in [x,x+ \Delta x]) \approx f_X(x) \,\Delta x. $$
Now suppose that $Y$ is also a continuous random variable. Is there a similar way to think about the conditional probability density function $f_{X \mid Y}(x \mid y)$? Notice that I cannot write $$ \tag{1} P(X \in [x,x + \Delta x] \mid Y = y) \approx f_{X \mid Y}(x \mid y) \, \Delta x $$ because the event $Y = y$ has probability $0$, and I can't condition on an event with probability $0$.
Question: Since equation (1) does not make sense, how should I think about $f_{X \mid Y}(x \mid y)$?
By the way, Bertsekas's book Introduction to Probability defines $f_{X\mid Y}$ like this: $$ f_{X \mid Y}(x \mid y) = \frac{f_{X,Y}(x,y)}{f_Y(y)}. $$ However, I do not find this formula to be intuitive, despite the formula's superficial similarity with the formula $$ P(A \mid B) = \frac{P(A \cap B)}{P(B)}. $$