I have two questions, one is in the title:
If $\sum(-1)^{n+1} \frac1n$ can be made to sum to any number then why it is equal to $\ln 2$? Certainly it occurs since the divergence of each of the two subseries (negatives and positives) guarantees that we will always be able to equate that to any desired number but why we choose $\ln 2$ instead?
For example, $\ln 2 = 1- \frac12 + \frac13 - \frac14 + \dots = 1- \frac12 - \frac14 + + \frac13 - \frac16 - \frac18 + \frac15 - \dots = \frac12 \ln 2 $
And second, which necessary and sufficient conditions a series must have to converge to one specific number if it converges to a number at all? And what proof is that for those necessary and sufficient conditions?