$$
\operatorname E\left( \sum_i X_i \right) = \sum_i \operatorname E X_i \text{ ?} \tag 1
$$
- Line $(1)$ holds if there are only finitely many indices $i.$
- Line $(1)$ holds if $\Pr(X_i\ge0)=1$ for every value of $i.$
- Line $(1)$ holds if $\displaystyle\operatorname E \left( \sum_i \left|X_i\right| \right)<+\infty,$ or equivalently if $\displaystyle \sum_i \operatorname E\left| X_i \right|<+\infty.$
The above is true regardless of whether the random variables are i.i.d., but the third one assumes convergence of the infinite sum. But if all of the terms have equal expectation, then of course the sum of expectations diverges to $+\infty$ or $-\infty$ unless the expectation of each term is $0.$
With variances it's more complicated. With finitely many terms in the sum, the sum of the variances equals the variance of the sum if the random variables are uncorrelated. That is a weaker assumption than independence. And it is weaker than pairwise independence. So it holds if they're independent. Since you assumed independence, that's all you need. Maybe I'll add some more on this later$\,\ldots$