I want to calculate the area of a parallelogramm given the following four vertices:
$$\vec{p}=\begin{pmatrix}2 \\ 0\\3 \end {pmatrix},\vec{q}=\begin{pmatrix}8 \\ 1\\1 \end {pmatrix},\vec{r}=\begin{pmatrix}6 \\ -2\\-1 \end {pmatrix},\vec{s}=\begin{pmatrix}12 \\ -1\\-3 \end {pmatrix}$$
I know I need to find two sides of the parallelogramm and then take the magnitude of the cross product. Here is my problem:
Assume that I chose to compute $\vec{q}-\vec{p}$ and $\vec{s}-\vec{p}$. My picture could look like this:
However, since I don't know the spatial location of $p,q,r,s$ then the picture could also look like this:
So how do I determine which points to subtract in order to get the correct pair of vectors? Does it even matter which pair I take or will the area be the same because of the symmetry of the problem?

