A hint that many geometers give for people who start in Riemannian Geometry is associate the definitions of the course of Differential Geometry of curves and surfaces on $\mathbb{R}^3$ with the respectively definition in Riemannian Geometry and observe that the definitions in Riemannian Geometry are just generalizations of the definitions of the Differential Geometry of curves and surfaces on $\mathbb{R}^3$. Following this hint and based on that I did a course of Differential Geometry of curves and surfaces on $\mathbb{R}^3$ by the Do Carmo's book, I'm trying understand how the Riemannian metric generalizes of the First Fundamental Form.
Let be $M^n$ a $n$-differentiable manifold. In this case is just consider $g_{ij} = \delta_{ij}$ for each $i, j = 1, \cdots, n$ and $\frac{\partial}{\partial x_i} = e_i$ for each $i = 1, \cdots, n$, considering $e_i$ as the elements of the canonical basis of the $\mathbb{R}^n$ and $\frac{\partial}{\partial x_i}$ the elements of the coordinate basis of $T_pM$ for some $p \in M^n$ fixed. My doubt is how can I interpret the equality $\frac{\partial}{\partial x_i} = e_i$? Because it doesn't seem that this equality it's true since $\frac{\partial}{\partial x_i}$ is a derivation defined at $p$, i.e., a linear operator which take a real function defined on $M$, which is differentiable on $p \in M$, and returns $\frac{\partial f}{\partial x_i} \in \mathbb{R}$, which is not an element of $\mathbb{R}^n$ for every $f$ that the operator can take, while $e_i \in \mathbb{R}^n$. Is $\frac{\partial}{\partial x_i} = e_i$ considering the trivial isomorphism between the space of derivations in $p$ and $\mathbb{R}^n$ or is just an abuse of notation for something? If it is an abuse of notation, can you explain what is the abuse of notation? I really didn't understand why this equality it's true.
Thanks in advance!