I can't figure out why the determinant changes, but there must be some relation since they're multiples of 370?
Adding a scalar multiple of one row (or column) to another row (or column) does not change the determinant so in your third attempt, you can indeed add twice the second row to the first row and you obtain the correct value of $370$.
However, in your first and second attempt, you change the second row not only by adding another row (the first), but also the second row itself. This changes the determinant: multiplying a row (or column) with a factor $k$, results in the determinant being multiplied by that same factor $k$ as well, hence the $740$ (2 times $R_2$ ) and $1110$ (3 times $R_2$).
As a side note, I would focus on the last column:
$$\begin{vmatrix}
4 & 5 & \color{red}{-3} \\ -2 & 21 & \color{blue}{1} \\ 8 & 7 & \color{red}{-2}
\end{vmatrix}
\underset{R_3 \to R_1+2R_2}{\overset{R_1 \to R_1+3R_2}{\longrightarrow}}
\begin{vmatrix}
-2 & 68 & \color{red}{0} \\ -2 & 21 & \color{blue}{1} \\ 4 & 49 & \color{red}{0}
\end{vmatrix}= - \left( -2 \cdot 49 - 4 \cdot 68 \right) = 370
$$