You've already deduced a scheme for equivalence relations that will do the job, but I would suggest a few refinements.
First of all, there's no need for the absolute value bars--we can simply say $u-t=k\cdot l$, instead, and it will make it easier to prove transitivity, without making symmetry particularly difficult to prove.
Second of all, there's no need to leave $l$ general, nor even think of it as a length. Any non-zero real number will do, once we've dropped the absolute value bars, but I'd pick $l=1$ for simplicity. That reduces the condition to $u-t=k.$