I believe the associativity axiom $(ab)v = a(bv)$ (more precisely, compatibility of scalar multiplication with field multiplication) to be independent of the others, but please do check my argument below.
Consider the additive group $V$ of the real numbers $\mathbf{R}$.
Now consider a bijective function $\varphi: \mathbf{R} \to \mathbf{R}$, different from the identity $1_{\mathbf{R}}$, that is an automorphism of $\mathbf{R}$ as a $\mathbf{Q}$-vector space, and such that $\varphi(1) = 1$. (There are plenty of choices for such a $\varphi$, just consider a Hamel basis containing $1$.)
What we really need of $\varphi$ is that $\varphi(a+b) = \varphi(a)+\varphi(b)$ for all $a, b \in \mathbf{R}$.
Now define a structure of $\mathbf{R}$-vector-space-without-associativity on $V$ by declaring the product of the scalar $a$ by the vector $v$ (all elements of $\mathbf{R}$, of course) as
$$
a \cdot v = \varphi(a) v,
$$
where RHS is just the usual multiplication in $\mathbf{R}$.
All axioms but associativity are satisfied. The subtlest is probably $$(a + b) \cdot v = \varphi(a+b)v = (\varphi(a) + \varphi(b)) v = \varphi(a) v + \varphi(b) v = a \cdot v + b \cdot v.$$
But associativity does not hold. In fact if
$(a b) \cdot 1 = a \cdot (b \cdot 1)$ for all $a, b \in \mathbf{R}$, then
$$
\varphi(ab) = \varphi(ab) 1 = \varphi(a) ( \varphi(b) 1) = \varphi(a) \varphi(b)
$$
for all $a, b \in \mathbf{R}$.
So associativity holds if and only if $\varphi$ is a ring automorphisms of $\mathbf{R}$. However the only such map is the identity, and we have chosen $\varphi \ne 1_{\mathbf{R}}$.
PS A simpler example can be obtained by replacing $\mathbf{R}$ with $\mathbf{C}$, and taking $\varphi(a+bi)=a+2bi$, say, for $a, b \in \mathbf{R}$.