Rewrite your matrix as
$$
A=\begin{pmatrix}4&u^T\\ u&\ast\end{pmatrix},
$$
where $u^T=(-1,-1,0)$. Let $Q_3$ be the 3-by-3 Householder matrix whose first column is $u/\|u\|$ (please review your lecture notes or textbook to see how to construct such a matrix $Q_3$). Then
$$
A':=\begin{pmatrix}1\\ &Q_3^T\end{pmatrix}A\begin{pmatrix}1\\ &Q_3\end{pmatrix}=\begin{pmatrix}4&\begin{array}{c}\|u\|&0&0\end{array}\\ \begin{array}{c}\|u\|\\0\\ 0\end{array}&\Large B\end{pmatrix}.
$$
In other words, we use a Householder matrix to zero out all but the first two entries in the first row and first column of $A$. Then you may proceed recursively. However, since $A$ is only 4-by-4 in this example, we need only one more iteration. Let
$$
B=\begin{pmatrix}\ast&v^T\\ v&\ast\end{pmatrix},
$$
where $v$ is a $2$-vector. Find a 2-by-2 Householder matrix $Q_2$ whose first column is $v/\|v\|$. Then
$$
\begin{pmatrix}1\\&Q_2^T\end{pmatrix}B\begin{pmatrix}1\\&Q_2^T\end{pmatrix}=\begin{pmatrix}\ast&\|v\|&0\\ \|v\|&\ast&\ast\\0&\ast&\ast\end{pmatrix}.
$$
Again, we use a Householder matrix to zero out all except the first two entries in the first row and first column of $B$. Now
$$
A'':=\begin{pmatrix}1\\&1\\&&Q_2^T\end{pmatrix}A'\begin{pmatrix}1\\&1\\&&Q_2^T\end{pmatrix}=\begin{pmatrix}4&\|u\|&0&0\\ \|u\|&\ast&\|v\|&0\\ 0&\|v\|&\ast&\ast\\0&0&\ast&\ast\end{pmatrix}
$$
is tridiagonal.