I am working through the book "Frobenius Algebras and 2D TQFTs" and am stuck on an exercise: Show that the Frobenius relations and the (co)unit relations imply the (co)associativity relations.
It's obvious topologically, but I have tried manipulating the diagrams and can't find a solution using only these relations.
For examples of the diagrams involved see this other paper, Lemmas 3.15, 3.16 and 3.18.








