Just do it.
$(a + b +c)^3 = (a+b+c)(a+b+c)(a+b+c) =$
$a^3 + a^2b + a^2c + aba + ab^2 + abc + aca+acb + ac^2 + ba^2 + bab + bac +b^2a + b^3 +b^2c + bca + bcb + bc^2 + ca^2 + cab + cac + cba + cb^2 + cbc + c^2 a + c^2b+ c^3=$
$(a^3 + b^3 + c^3) + 3(a^2 b + a^2c + ab^2 +b^2c + ac^2+bc^2) +6abc=$
$(a^3 + b^3 + c^3) + 3([a^2b + a^2c + abc]+ [ab^2 + abc + b^2c] + [abc + ac^2 + bc^2] + 3abc =$
$(a^3 + b^3 + c^3) + 3(a(ab + ac +bc) + b(ab + ac +bc) + c(ab +ac +bc)) + 3abc =$
$(a^3 + b^3 +c^3) +3(a+b+c)(ab+ac + bc) + 3abc$
......
$(a+b+c)^3 = $ sum of all the cubes of all terms ($a^3 + b^3 +c^3)+$
$3$ ways of getting one of the terms times the square of the sum of the other two terms $
$3[ a(b+c)^2 + b(a+c)^2 + c(a+b)^2]$.
Meanwhile looking at each $a(b+c)(b+c)$ and $b(a+c)(a+c)$ and $c(a+b)(a+b)$ we have every term times the some of product of any two terms: That is to say, from $a(b+c)(b+c)$ we can extract $a(b^2)$ and $a(bc)$(twice) and $a(c^2)$ whereas for $b(a+c)(a+c)$ we can extract $a(ab)$ and $a(bc)$ twice and so on. We have three of each $a(b+c)^2$ so we can do this extraction for each $a,b,c$ so from $3[ a(b+c)^2 + b(a+c)^2 + c(a+b)^2]$ we can get $a(ab+bc+ac)$ and $b(ab+bc + ac)$ and $c(ab+bc+ac)$, as well as three extra $abc$s.
So this should intuitively give us the result.
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$(a + b+ c)^3=(a+b+c)(a+b+c)(a+b+c)$ should be a sum of the $27$ different combinations of three terms. They are:
- terms of the form $x^3$. There are three of those; one for $x=a,b,c$
- terms of the form $x^2y$. for each $a,b,$ or $c$ there are two out of three of the triplets, $(a+b+c)$ where the two $x$s can come from, and the $y$ must come from the third triplet. That is to say. to get $\color{blue}{x^2y}$, we get it from $(\color{blue}x + \color{gray}y + \color{gray}z)(\color{blue}x + \color{gray}y + \color{gray}z)(\color{gray}x + \color{blue}y + \color{gray}z)$ and there are ${3\choose 2}={3\choose 1} = 3$ ways to choose which of $x$s and which $y$ to use. And of $a,b,c$ there are $3$ choices for the $x$ and $2$ remaining for the $y$. And of those $6$ there are $3$ choices of how you pick the $x$ and $y$ so those are $18$ of these $x^2y$s.
- the remaining six terms are the terms $abc$. It makes sense that there are $6! =6$ of these terms, because there are $3$ triplets to choose the $a$ from; once choosen there are $2$ remaining triplets to choose the $b$, etc.
The second item on the list can be written as $3(a^2(b+c) + b^2(a+c)+c^2(b+c)$ or purhaps more "balanced" as $3(a(ab+ac) + b(ab + bc) + c(ab + bc))$.
And we can "borrow " three of the $abc$s from the third item on the list so that $3(a(ab + ac + bc) + b(ab + ac + bc)+ c(ab + ac + bc) ) = 3(a+b+c)(ab + bc + ac)$
So ultimately
$(a+b+c)^3 = (a^3 + b^3 + c^3) + 3(a+b+c)(ab+bc + ac) + 3abc$.
That's nothing more or less than the sum of all combinations presented and factored in a fairly convenient and simple form.