The simplest reason that it isn't allowed is that it simply doesn't work. If you take the numbers $\sqrt{11}$ and $\sqrt{44}$, then add them, and then square the result, you do not get $11+99$, you get $11+44+2\sqrt{11\cdot 44}=11+44+2\cdot 22=99$.
We can get the correct result as shown above by using a different method. It is the distributive property, where we take each piece and multiply it out. To do the above calculation more carefully:
$$(\sqrt{11}+\sqrt{44})^2=(\sqrt{11}+\sqrt{44})\cdot (\sqrt{11}+\sqrt{44})$$$$= (\sqrt{11}+\sqrt{44})\cdot (\sqrt{11})+(\sqrt{11}+\sqrt{44})\cdot (\sqrt{44})$$
$$=11+44+2\sqrt{11\cdot 44}=11+44+(2\cdot 22)=99$$
This works for any numbers at all, not just 11 and 44. For instance:
$$(\sqrt{4}+\sqrt{49})^2=(\sqrt{4}+\sqrt{49})\cdot (\sqrt{4}+\sqrt{49})$$$$= (\sqrt{4}+\sqrt{49})\cdot (\sqrt{4})+(\sqrt{4}+\sqrt{49})\cdot (\sqrt{49})$$
$$=4+49+2\sqrt{4\cdot 49}=4+49+(2\cdot 14)=81$$
Which you may note agrees with the more obvious: $(2+7)^2=81$. If we assumed that the square can "distribute" as in your conjecture, we would get the incorrect statement $(2+7)^2=4+49=53$.
So even though it looks as though it may be reasonable for the square to distribute, it cannot do that, or else we would have nonsense.
This should, I hope, make it a bit more clear that a) the distributive property (for multiplying) is very useful and cool, and a very interesting property for multiplication to have AND b) the rules for squaring and other powers are actually direct consequences of the distributive property. Squaring means multiplying a number by itself, and the distributive property determines what that must be.