To the best of my knowledge, there is no common or standard notation which conveys the idea in the question. Because there is a lack of such notation, I would suggest that if new notation is going to be introduced, then it should be very clearly defined somewhere before it is used. I would also strongly suggest that color not be used—not all journals print in color, colorblindness is a thing, etc. The notation $\pm_1$, $\pm_2$, etc. might work, though I find it unaesthetic (personally).
As I see it, there are two pre-existing and commonly used notations which are relevant:
The symbols $\pm$ and $\mp$ can be used. This is somewhat limited: in the expression $1 \pm (x \pm 3) \pm 4$, it is not clear if the three signs must be the same or can be different; while in the expression $1 \pm (x \pm 3) \mp 4$ it must be the case that the first two signs are the same, and the third is different. However, there are contexts in which $\pm$ and $\mp$ are very useful.
Dummy variables may be used. For example, as noted in the comments by JMoravitz, it would be very reasonable to write
$$ 1 + c_1(x + 3 c_1) + 4 c_2, \qquad c_1, c_2 \in \{\pm 1\}. $$
That is, instead of subscripting the operators, introduce new variables, and subscript them. One could go so far as to introduce a class of dummy variables towards the beginning of a paper, e.g.
The variables $s_i$ will be used throughout to indicate the sign of a term. As such, $s_i \in \{\pm 1\}$ for any index $i$. For example,
$$ 1 + s_1(x+3s_1) + 4s_2 $$
expands to
$$ 1 + (x+3) - 4,
\quad 1 + (x+3) + 4,
\quad 1 - (x-3) - 4,
\quad\text{or}\quad
1 - (x-3) + 4. $$