The number of possibilities is actually much lower, only $\frac{10\times9\times8}{3\times2\times1} = 120$, because it doesn't matter what order they come in; however, we can do some things to reduce the amount of work required: we can calculate the required smallest value based on the larger two values, and we can restrict the possible range of the larger values based on their order.
First things first: We know that the largest of the three numbers must be higher than $1/3$ the size of the target number. For $65\,232$ this means that we only need to check the first $5$ numbers for that, because anything smaller than $65\,232 / 3 = 21\,744$ can't possibly the largest number.
Now, considering each of these numbers in turn, we'll try $a = 41\,207$ and find the leftovers $65\,232-41\,207 = 24\,025$. The second number, $b$, must be smaller than this; it must also be smaller than $a$ itself, and furthermore it must be small enough that $c$ can possibly be on the list, that is to say $b < x-a-\min(pile)$. The second number must also be larger than half of these leftovers so it's larger than whatever $c$ ends up being, which means $\frac{x-a}{2} < b < \min(a,x-a-\min(pile))$, that is, $12\,012.5\le b < 12\,578$. There are actually no candidates for $b$ that work for this $a$! The first one that meets these requirements is $a=33\,749$ and $b=18\,905$.
Finally, we don't need to try values for $c$; we can simply calculate $c=x-a-b$ and see if that's in the list. From $120$ things to check we've gone down to just $9$, and the answer is $33\,749+18\,686+12\,797=65\,232$.
Similar work will do the job very quickly for the other two values: there are $9$ candidates for $73\,002$ and only $6$ for $56\,273$.
We can generalize this:
To find a subset of size $n$ in a set $S$ of non-negative numbers that adds to a value $x$:
Then $a_k$, the $k$th highest value, must be at least $\frac{\sum_{j=1}^{k-1}a_j}{n-k-1}$, and at most the minimum of $a_{k-1}$ and $x - \sum_{j=1}^{n-k}S_j$, where $S$ is in order from lowest to highest. Iterate, depth-first, available values for $a_k$; upon reaching $a_n$ the above bounds converge on a single value, and if that's in $S$ then you win.