So long as $x \ne y$ all your examples should have worked.
Your example of $x=1,y=4$ and $\lambda = \frac 12$ should have resulted in
$\sqrt {\lambda x + (1-\lambda)y}=\sqrt{\frac 12 *1 + \frac 12*4}=\sqrt{\frac 52}$.
While $\lambda \sqrt x + (1-\lambda)\sqrt y = \frac 12 \sqrt 1 + \frac 12\sqrt 4 = \frac 32$.
And as $\frac 32 =\sqrt{\frac 94} <\sqrt{\frac{10}4}= \sqrt{\frac 52}$.
This equation fails.
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In general $\sqrt{\lambda x + (1-\lambda)y}^2 =\lambda x+ (1-\lambda) y$
whereas $(\lambda \sqrt x+ (1-\lambda)\sqrt y)^2=\lambda^2 x + (1-\lambda)^2y + \lambda(1-\lambda)\sqrt {xy}$
And by AM-GM
$\lambda^2 x + (1-\lambda)^2y + \lambda(1-\lambda)\sqrt {xy}<\lambda^2 x + (1-\lambda)^2y + \lambda(1-\lambda)\frac {x+y}2=$
$(\lambda^2+\frac {\lambda(1-\lambda)}2)x + ((1-\lambda)^2+\frac {\lambda(1-\lambda)}2)y=$
$\frac {\lambda^2+ \lambda}2x+\frac {(1-\lambda)^2+ (1-\lambda)}2y$
And if $0 < \lambda < 1$ then $0 < 1-\lambda < 1$ and so $\lambda^2 < \lambda$ and $(1-\lambda)^2 < 1-\lambda$ and so
$\frac {\lambda^2+ \lambda}2x+\frac {(1-\lambda)^2+ (1-\lambda)}2y< \frac {\lambda+ \lambda}2x+\frac {(1-\lambda)+ (1-\lambda)}2y= \lambda x + (1-\lambda)y$
So the convex inequality always fails if $x \ne y$ and $0 < \lambda < 1$.