I'm trying to see why $RP^n\times S^m$ and $RP^m\times S^n$ are not homotopy equivalent. The tricky part is that they have the same homotopy groups(if n,m>1). I have spent countless hours on this question without any luck, I know that if $n<m$ and $n$ is even, then we can consider the action of $\pi_1$ on $\pi_n$:
$\pi_1(RP^n\times S^m)$ acting on $\pi_n(RP^n\times S^m)$ is nontrivial but $\pi_1(RP^m\times S^n)$ acting on $\pi_n(RP^m\times S^n)$ is trivial.
But I couldn't think of a way to deal with the case $n$ is odd.
We haven't introduced homology/cohomology yet, otherwise I would have just used the Künneth formula.
Any hint is appreciated, if possible I would like to complete the argument myself. Thanks a lot!