for two random $n$-vectors $(X_1,X_2)$ define
$$f(X_1,X_2)=\text{med}((X_1+X_2)^2)-\text{med}((X_1-X_2)^2)$$
Now define the matrix $U$ with entries
$$U_{ij}=\frac{n}{4}f(X_i,X_j)$$
Based on a large number of computer simulations using many nearly collinear matrices $X=(X_1,\ldots,X_p)\in\mathbb{R}^{n\times p}$ with $n>p=100$, I've come to suspect that if the members of $X$ are in general linear position, then $U$ is P.S.D..
To put the matter to rest, I'm trying to prove this statement (or find a counter example). My question is how would you go about attacking this problem?
I've been trying to prove that $U$ is diagonally dominant (it is easy to show that $U_{ii}>U_{ij}\forall i\neq j$, but I have not been able to make any statement about the sum of the absolute values of the off-diagonal elements).