I'm learning about continuous Markov processes (so the time is continuous and we have a discrete state space, I think these are also called jump processes), they are well-studied generalizations of the Poisson process.
I'm trying to understand the proof of the Kolmogorov forward/backward equations. I'm using the book of Rozanov and he assumes (Th. 8.2) the transition probabilities satisfy $$\begin{aligned} 1-p_{ii}(\Delta t) &= \lambda_i \Delta t + o(\Delta t), \qquad i=1,2,\dots \\ p_{ij}(\Delta t) &= \lambda_{ij} \Delta t + o(\Delta t),\qquad j\neq i, \ i,j=1,2,\dots \end{aligned}$$ In that case I understand the proof of the differential equations, but it seems to me that these conditions on $p_{ij}(\Delta t)$ should not be assumptions, but theorems instead, so I'm asking about a proof of these facts (if a book contains the proof in detail then great).
Let's take the second equation concerning $p_{ij}(\Delta t)$. After searching in books, I understood the proof that if $\tau$ is the time of first jump, then under $\mathbb{P}^i$, $\tau$ and $X_{\tau}$ are independent, where $\mathbb{P}^i(A):=\mathbb{P}(A\mid X_0=i)$. Consequently if we denote $\pi_{ij} = \mathbb{P}(X_{\tau}=j\mid X_0=i)$, then for $j\neq i$, \begin{align*} p_{ij}(\Delta t) &= \mathbb{P}^i(X_{\Delta t}=j) = \mathbb{P}^i(X_{\Delta t} = j \text{ and } \tau \le \Delta t)\\ &\le \mathbb{P}^i(X_{\tau}=j \text{ and } \tau\le \Delta t) + \mathbb{P}^i(\text{at least two jumps by time } \Delta t) \end{align*} The first term is good : by independence it becomes $\pi_{ij}\mathbb{P}^i(\tau\le \Delta t) = \pi_{ij}(\lambda_i\Delta t+o(\Delta t))$, this I understand. But what about the second term ? why is it $o(\Delta t)$ ?
I saw a reference arguing that, if $\tau_i$ is the sojourn time in state $i$, then \begin{align*} &\mathbb{P}^i(\text{at least two jumps by time } \Delta t) \\ & \qquad = \sum_{k\neq i} \mathbb{P}^i(\text{at least two jumps by time } \Delta t\mid X_{\tau}=k)\pi_{ik}\\ & \qquad = \sum_{k\neq i} \mathbb{P}(\tau_i+\tau_k \le \Delta t)\pi_{ik} \le \sum_{k\neq i} \mathbb{P}(\tau_i\le \Delta t\text{ and }\tau_k \le \Delta t)\pi_{ik}\\ &\qquad = \sum_{k\neq i} o(\Delta t)\pi_{ik} = o(\Delta t) \end{align*} where in the last line he says it's because the sojourn times in $i$ and $k$ are independent, but he provides no proof for this... any proof for this or different argument ?
Thank you !