I am looking at Miles Reid's UAG book. There he claims that every projective conic is projectively equivalent to $XZ = Y^2$. He asks to show that $Q$ a non-degenerate quadratic form is such that $Q(e_1) = 0$ then $V$ has a basis $e_1,e_2,e_3$ such that $Q(x_1e_1 +x_2e_2 + x_3e_3) = x_1x_3 + ax_2^2$.
First I confusd by hint in exercise 1.5. He say if $\dim_k V = 3$ and $e_1$ in $V$ satisfies $Q(e_1) = 0$ then if $\varphi$ is symmetric bilinear form stuck to $Q$ then there is $e_3$ such that $\varphi(e_1,e_3) = 1$ (okay?????? ) Then he asks to find suitable $e_2$.
I confuse because actually we want to find a basis for $V$ so that $\varphi$ in that basis
$$\varphi = \left[\begin{array}{ccc} 0 & 0 & \frac{1}{2} \\ 0 & a & 0 \\ \frac{1}{2}& 0 & 0\end{array}\right]$$
no? So how does hint help?
Please help I confuse.