If you wish to avoid classical geometry, you can use vector geometry for questions of this type.
Take the origin at $A$ and let $B,C$ have position vectors $b,c$ respectively. Let $L,K$ have position vectors $tc,sb$ respectively. $M$ is on the line $LK$ and so $$tc-\frac{b+c}{2}=\lambda \left(\frac{b+c}{2}-sb \right).$$
Equating coefficients of $b$ and $c$ gives the position vectors of $L,K$ as respectively $$ \frac{\lambda+1}{2}c,\frac{\lambda+1}{2\lambda}b.$$
By the ratio theorem any point on $BL$ has position vector $$rb+(1-r)\frac{\lambda+1}{2}c$$ for some $r$. Similarly, any point on $CK$ has position vector $$sc+(1-s)\frac{\lambda+1}{2\lambda}b$$ for some $s$. The point $N$ is where $BL$ and $CK$ intersect and equating the coefficients of $b$ and $c$ in the two expressions gives the position vector of $N$ as $$\frac{\lambda+1}{\lambda-1}(b-c).$$ Therefore the locus of $N$ is indeed a line throught the origin $A$ parallel to $BC$.