Let X be a set of three elements ${a,b,c}$.
1.How many different relations can you define?
The answer is 9, as $R\subset X \times X$
This is easy to see for me, I imagine it as a ~ a, a ~ b, ..., c ~ a, ...
2.How many different equivalent relations can you define?
The answer is five. The argument is that you can list all partitions: {{a},{b},{c}},{{a,b},{c}},{{a},{b,c}},{{a,c},{b}},{{a,b,c}}.
What I'm not following is that to have an equivalence relation I must show that it's reflexive (i.e. a ~ a), symmetric (i.e. a ~ b = b ~ a) and transitive (i.e. a ~ b, b ~ c = a ~ c). Which for me covers one equivalence relation; involving three elements. How do the rest four look like?!