Considering the lines of $f(y)$ we have
$$
\frac{d f(y)}{d y_k}=\frac{d}{dy_k}\left(A_{ij}y_j+\lambda\left(1-\sum_{l=1}^3y_l^2\right)y_i\right)
$$
and now
$$
\frac{d}{dy_k}A_{ij}y_j = A_{ik}e_k\\
\frac{d}{dy_k}\left(1-\sum_{l=1}^3y_l^2\right)y_i = \left(1-\sum_{l=1}^3y_l^2\right)e_k-2y_k y_i e_k
$$
here $e_k$ represents the $k-$row unit. So we have
$$
\frac{d}{dy_k}\left(A_{ij}y_j+\lambda\left(1-\sum_{l=1}^3y_l^2\right)y_i\right)
= A_{ik}e_k+\left(1-\sum_{l=1}^3y_l^2\right)e_k-2y_k y_i e_k
$$
or in a more compact form
$$
Df(y) = A+\lambda \left(1-||y||^2\right)I_3-2\lambda y y^{\top}
$$
with $I_3$ the identity rank 3 matrix.
Now regarding the eigenvalues
substituting into $Df(y)$ the relationship $y_1 = \sqrt{1-y_2}$ we have
$$
\left(
\begin{array}{cc}
2 \lambda \left(y_2^2-1\right) & -2 \lambda \sqrt{1-y_2^2} y_2-1 \\
1-2 \lambda y_2 \sqrt{1-y_2^2} & -2 \lambda y_2^2 \\
\end{array}
\right)
$$
with eigenvalues
$$
\left\{-\sqrt{\lambda ^2-1}-\lambda ,\sqrt{\lambda ^2-1}-\lambda \right\}
$$