I want to show that the Lie algebra $A=\{ x\in M_3(\mathbb{C}) : x^T\begin{pmatrix} 1 & 0 & 1\\ 0 & 1 & 0\\ 1 & 0 & 1\\ \end{pmatrix}+\begin{pmatrix} 1 & 0 & 1\\ 0 & 1 & 0\\ 1 & 0 & 1\\ \end{pmatrix}x=0\}$ is not simple.
I've tried to look at the center of $A$, since the center is an ideal. However it seems that the center is trivial (I haven't managed to find anything).
Using the given relation, then I've found out that elements of $A$ are on the form $x=\begin{pmatrix} a & b & c\\ d & 0 & d\\ -a & -b-d & -c\\ \end{pmatrix}$.
I've also tried to construct a non-trivial ideal of $A$, but without any luck.
Now I'm kinda stuck. Any hint is appriciated.