I understand and capable of doing basic matrix operations and related things.
But the thing I can't understand is,
How to construct a matrix from given data? How to know what to assign to columns, and what to rows?
Take this part from a textbook for example -

How to know when to take row matrix, and when to take column matrix? I understand, by doing this the multiplication is made possible, but that's not a logical thinking.
About this particular example, my confusion is why the 'two parts' are assigned to columns in matrix $A$, then to rows in matrix $R$. To me it is inconsistency. Also later when $AR$ is done, it solves the problem, but it is not clear why $RA$ was not done. (Here $AR$=$RA$, but that's not the case every time.)
Also, apart from 'composition of two linear transformations', is there a 'day-to-day' meaning of matrix-multiplication? To clarify that, we consider $2\times3$ as $2$ added to zero $3$ times. Apart from this mathematical interpretation, we can also say that the product is the total number of something required if each of $2$ people are given $3$ of that thing. I was looking for similar 'easy' meaning for matrix multiplication.