Since $(2a-2)x^2+(3a-3b)$ is a common factor and the common factor is said to be a quadratic, the (monic) common factor must look like $h(x) = x^2+\dfrac 32 \cdot \dfrac{a-b}{a-1}$.
This is ugly. So let's try and avoid the direction that this is taking us. We can assume that $h(x) = x^2 - \alpha$ where $\alpha = -\dfrac 32 \cdot \dfrac{a-b}{a-1}$ and, for some $u$ and for some $v$
\begin{align}
f(x) &= (x-u)(x^2-\alpha) \\
x^3-ax^2-bx-3a &= x^3 - ux^2 - \alpha x +\alpha u \\
u &= a \\
\alpha &= b \\
\alpha u &= -3a
\end{align}
\begin{align}
g(x) &= (x-v)(x^2-\alpha) \\
x^3+(a-2)x^2-bx-3b &= x^3 - vx^2 - \alpha x +\alpha v \\
v &= 2-a \\
\alpha &= b \\
\alpha v &= -3b
\end{align}
Since $\alpha = b$, then $\alpha v = -3b
\implies b v = -3b
\implies b(v+3)=0$.
So, either $b=0$ or $v=-3$
If $b=0$, then we must also have $a=0$.
In which case,
\begin{align}
f(x) &=x^3 \\
g(x) &=x^3-2x^2 \\
h(x) &=x^2
\end{align}
If $v=-3$, then $a=5$, $u=5$, $\alpha = -3$, and $b=-3$.
In which case
\begin{align}
f(x) &= x^3-5x^2+3x-15 \\
g(x) &= x^3+3x^2+3x+9 \\
h(x) &= x^2+3
\end{align}