While it is possible to solve using Fourier Transform, it is also possible to convert to a differential equation.
$$
f'(x) = -\frac{x}{|x|}e^{-|x|}+\lambda \int_{-\infty}^\infty -\frac{x-y}{|x-y|}e^{-|x-y|}f(y)dy
$$
And, as $\frac{x}{|x|}=1$ when $x>0$ and $-1$ when $x<0$, we can write this as
$$
f'(x) = -\frac{x}{|x|}e^{-|x|}+\lambda\int_{-\infty}^x e^{x-y}f(y)dy-\lambda\int_x^\infty e^{y-x}f(y)dy
$$
Note that we will only be considering $x\neq 0$ in terms of the differential equation - we will determine $x=0$ in a different manner. Differentiating a second time gives
$$\begin{align}
f''(x) &= e^{-|x|}-\lambda f(x)+\lambda\int_{-\infty}^x e^{x-y}f(y)dy-\lambda f(x)+\lambda\int_x^\infty e^{y-x}f(y)dy\\
& = e^{-|x|}+\lambda\int_{-\infty}^\infty e^{-|x-y|}f(y)dy-2\lambda f(x)=(1-2\lambda)f(x)
\end{align}$$
So, for $x\neq0$, the equation behaves as $f''(x)=(1-2\lambda)f(x)$. We will let $1-2\lambda=b^2$, to emulate the substitution used by Ron Gordon in his solution.
At $x=0$, we must look at the integral equation directly. That is,
$$
f(0) = 1+\lambda\int_{-\infty}^\infty e^{-|y|}f(y)dy
$$
Now, solving our differential equation, we get
$$
f(x) = \left\{\begin{matrix} a_1 e^{bx}+a_2 e^{-bx}&\text{when }x>0\\f(0)&\text{when }x=0\\c_1e^{bx}+c_2e^{-bx}&\text{when }x<0\end{matrix}\right.
$$
To keep the function bounded, we must have $a_1=c_2=0$. Evaluating the integral in our definition of $f(0)$, we get
$$
\int_{-\infty}^\infty e^{-|y|}f(y)dy = \int_{-\infty}^0 e^{y}\left(c_1e^{by}\right)dy+\int_0^\infty e^{-y}\left(a_2e^{-by}\right)dy
$$
Given this, we have
$$\begin{align}
\int_{-\infty}^\infty e^{-|y|}f(y)dy &= \left[\frac{c_1e^{(1+b)y}}{1+b}\right]_{-\infty}^0-\left[ \frac{a_2e^{-(1+b)y}}{1+b}\right]_0^\infty\\
&= \frac{a_2+c_1}{1+b}
\end{align}$$
If we require continuity in the solution, then
$$
a_2=1+\lambda\frac{a_2+c_1}{1+b}=c_1
$$
We can solve to get $a_2=c_1=\frac{1}{b}$
Substituting these into our function, we get
$$
f(x) = \frac{1}{b}e^{-b|x|} = \frac{1}{\sqrt{1-2\lambda}}e^{-\sqrt{1-2\lambda}|x|}
$$
Which can easily be recognised as the same result obtained by Ron Gordon.
Of course, the case of $\lambda=\frac12$ is a special case that must be handled separately. In this case, our differential equation is $f''(x)=0$, and so $f(x)=ax+c$, with $a$ and $c$ again not necessarily the same between $x<0$ and $x>0$. However, if $a\neq 0$, then $f(x)$ is not bounded, so, accounting for continuity, $f(x)$ must be a constant. Therefore, our $x=0$ condition says
$$
\int_{-\infty}^\infty e^{-|y|}f(y)dy = 2c
$$
Therefore, we must have that $c=1+c$ which is a contradiction, and so there is no bounded solution for $\lambda=\frac12$.