Consider this:
How might we do $536 - 254$.
We might think "let's get those close together by stripping of $4$ from each:
$536 - 254 = (536-4) - (254-4) = 532-250$
And then we might thing. "let's keep getting those closer together by stripping off $30$".
$532 - 250 = (532-30) -(250-30) = 502 - 220$
"let keep getting thos closer together by stripping off $20$"
$502 - 220 = (502-20) - (220 -20) = 482 - 200$.
"let get those closer together by stripping off $200$.
$482-200 = (482-200)-(200-200) = 282 - 0 = 282$.
And that's it.
What if we thought the same way.
$13 - 79$. "Let's get them closer together by stripping off $13$.
$13 - 79 = (13-13) - (79-13) = 0 - 66$.
So how do we subtract $66$ from $0$?
Well, we lie awake at night wondering how we can ever have less than $0$ and figure. Well, going into debt and owing money. Having many years after Christ and using the years A.D. but what about the people born before Christ using B.C. and what about mountains above sea level, and those who live below ground. And we figure...
Okay, negative numbers... we can live with them.
So
$13 - 79$. We must subtract $79$ from $13$. ANd $79 = 13 + 66$. So first we subtract $13$ to get us down to $0$. And then we subtract the remaining $66$ to get us below $0$ to $-66$.
That is.
$13 - 79 = $
$(13-13) - (79-13)=$
$0 - 66 =$
$-66$.
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Now.... the is a shortcut....
Once this stops being so new and strange and you realize:
That if $M > N$ then if you have to do
$N - M$ you realize you have to strip the smaller $N$ first
$(N-N) - (M-N) =$
$0 - (M-N)$ we get that
we will always "drop down to $0$ and then subtract whatever the difference between the bigger number to the smaller number.
So if $M > N$ then
$N - M = -(M-N)$.
SO.... shortcut....
When subtracting a bigger number from a smaller number and you know you will end up with less than $0$. Just subtract the smaller number from the bigger number and make that negative.
So $13 - 79$ .... well $79 -13 = 66$ so $13-79 = -66$. That's it.
But the first part of the answer was to explain why that works and why it will make sense once you start to think about it.