Let $\psi: \mathbb{P}^r \times \mathbb{P}^s \to \mathbb{P}^N$ be the Segre embedding with $N = rs + r + s$, as in Hartshorne exercise I.2.14. To be explicit: the image of the pair $([a_0 : \ldots : a_r], [b_0 : \ldots : b_s])$ is $[\ldots : a_ib_j : \ldots]$ in lexicographic order. Let $[z_{00} : \ldots : z_{rs}]$ be homogeneous coordinates on $\mathbb{P}^N$. From the proof that $\operatorname{im} \psi$ is a subvariety of $\mathbb{P}^N$ I know that it is the zero locus of the polynomials $z_{ij}z_{kl} - z_{il}z_{kj}$. But what are the equations for $\psi(X) \subset \mathbb{P}^N$ where $X$ is a subset of $\mathbb{P}^r \times \mathbb{P}^s$ defined in an algebraic way?
More concretely: I have two conics $C = Z(f) \subset \mathbb{P}^2$ and $D^* = Z(g^*) \subset \mathbb{P}^2$ ($D^*$ is the dual conic of the conic $D = Z(g)$). I want to investigate the structure of the incidence correspondence $X = \{(p,\ell) \in C \times D^* : p \in \ell\}$. This can also be described as the set of pairs $([x:y:z],[a:b:c]) \in \mathbb{P}^2 \times \mathbb{P}^2$ such that $f(x,y,z) = 0$, $g^*(a,b,c) = 0$, and $ax + by + cz = 0$. This embeds into $\mathbb{P}^8$ via the Segre embedding. What are the equations for $\psi(X)$ in $\mathbb{P}^8$?
I know that $\psi(([x:y:z],[a:b:c])) = [ax : bx : cx : ay : by : cy : az : bz : cz]$. Hence (I believe) $\psi(X) = \psi(C \times D^*) \cap Z(z_{00} + z_{11} + z_{22})$. But how do I express $\psi(C \times D^*)$ in terms of these new coordinates? For $C$ do I need $f(z_{00}, z_{10},z_{20}) = 0$, or $f(z_{01},z_{11},z_{21}) = 0$, or $f(z_{02}, z_{12}, z_{22}) = 0$, or something completely different?
Thanks in advance.
Edit: Using the fact that all conics are isomorphic and the 2-uple embedding I can actually assume $C = D^* = \mathbb{P}^1$ (Hartshorne exercise I.3.1(c)). What does the incidence correspondence become then, and after the Segre embedding how can it be described in homogeneous coordinates on $\mathbb{P}^3$?