Here's my attempt. Trust me, I solved it in around 5 min. only typing took a bit more time.
Q.1. Consider $ax^2+2bx+c=0$.
As $a,b,c$ are in GP, let $b=ar$ and $c=ar^2$
So, we have, $ax^2+2arx+ar^2=0$ i.e. $a(x+r)^2=0$ and hence $x=−r$ is the only root of $ax^2+2bx+c=0$.
This means, $x=−r$ is also the root of $dx^2+2ex+f=0$ and we have $dr^2−2er+f=0$. Dividing this by $ar^2$ we get $$\frac{d}{a}−\frac{2e}{ar}+\frac{f}{ar2}=0$$
$$\frac{d}{a}+\frac{f}{c}=\frac{2e}{b}$$
Hence, $\frac{d}{a},\;\frac{e}{b},\;\frac{f}{c}$ are in AP.
Q.2. This same question is given in my textbook also and I think you've got a typo in your question. Instead of $\alpha-\beta$ it should be $\alpha, \beta$. I've solved the question accordingly.
Let $(\alpha,\beta,\gamma,\delta)\equiv (a, ar, ar^2, ar^3)$.
$\alpha+\beta=1\implies a(1+r) =1\\
\gamma+\delta=4\implies ar^2(1+r)=4\\
\alpha\beta=p\implies ar^2=p\\
\gamma\delta=q\implies a^2r^5=q$
Now, by first two equations we get $(r, a)=(2, \frac{1}{3}), \;(-2, -1) $.
Hence, the integral value of $p, \;q$ are $-2, \;-32$ respectively.