I want to show that $\mathbb{C}[s, t, u] \to \mathbb{C}[x, y] : s \mapsto x^2, t \mapsto xy, u \mapsto y^2$ is not flat.
If $s \otimes y \neq t \otimes x$ in $(x^2, xy, y^2) \otimes_{\mathbb{C}[s, t, u]} \mathbb{C}[x, y]$, then we can show it.
But I have no idea how I can show inequality of elements of a tensor.
EDIT
I'm sorry, I have misunderstood.
I want to show that the inclusion $\mathbb{C}[x^2, xy, y^2] \to \mathbb{C}[x, y]$ is not flat.
In this case, it seems that the arguments of 2 comments do not work.
So I think that I must show $x^2 \otimes y \neq xy \otimes x$ in $(x^2, xy, y^2) \otimes_{\mathbb{C}[x^2, xy, y^2]} \mathbb{C}[x, y]$.
I have seen this. But I can't find nice $\mathbb{C}[x^2, xy, y^2]$-linear map $(x^2, xy, y^2) \times \mathbb{C}[x, y] \to M$.