For the first question, according to what you reported, the book does
give a specific value of $\delta$ for each value of $\epsilon.$
That value is
$$
\delta = \frac{\epsilon}{1+2|a|+\epsilon}.
$$
Notice that $1+2|a|+\epsilon > \epsilon > 0$ and hence this formula for $\delta$
ensures that $0 < \delta < 1.$
For the second question, the book makes several claims for the case
where $\epsilon > 0,$ $\delta = \frac{\epsilon}{1+2|a|+\epsilon},$
and $|x-a| < \delta.$
One claim is
$$ |f(x) - f(a)| = |x+a||x-a|. $$
This is true because $m^2 - n^2 = (m+n)(m-n).$
Another claim is
$$ |x+a||x-a| < (|x|+|a|)\delta. $$
This is true because $|x-a| < \delta.$
Another claim is
$$ (|x|+|a|)\delta < (|a|+\delta + |a|)\delta . $$
This is true because $|x| < |a|+\delta.$
Then there is the claim that
$ (|a|+\delta + |a|)\delta = (\delta + 2|a|)\delta, $
which is true by simple rearrangement and combination of terms.
Finally, the book claims that
$$ (\delta + 2|a|)\delta < \epsilon. $$
Plugging in the chosen value of $\delta,$ this is equivalent to the claim that
$$ \left(\frac{\epsilon}{1+2|a|+\epsilon} + 2|a|\right)
\frac{\epsilon}{1+2|a|+\epsilon} < \epsilon. $$
Working this out,
$$ 0 < \frac{\epsilon}{1+2|a|+\epsilon} < 1 $$
and
$$ 0 < \frac{1 + 2|a|}{1+2|a|+\epsilon} < 1, $$
and therefore
\begin{align}
\left(\frac{\epsilon}{1+2|a|+\epsilon} + 2|a|\right)
\frac{\epsilon}{1+2|a|+\epsilon}
&< \left(1 + 2|a|\right) \frac{\epsilon}{1+2|a|+\epsilon} \\
&= \frac{1 + 2|a|}{1+2|a|+\epsilon}\epsilon \\
&< \epsilon .
\end{align}
So the claim is true, but what an excessively complicated way this is to do it.
You get a simpler proof if you choose $\delta$ according to the formula in another answer,
$$\delta < \min\left(1, \frac{\epsilon}{1+2|a|}\right).$$
The value of $\delta$ you get for any $\epsilon$ in this way may be greater than the $\delta$ selected by the book, but it is still small enough to finish the proof.
See this answer for another proof.