Your differential equations are linear, with constant coefficients, for which there are well-established methods of solution. First write them in matrix form as:
$$
\pmatrix{\frac{dx}{ds}\\
\frac{dy}{ds}\\
\frac{du}{ds}}=\pmatrix{0&1&1\\
1&0&1\\
1&1&0}\pmatrix{x\\y\\u}\ .
$$
Next, find the eigenvalues of the matrix $\ \pmatrix{0&1&1\\1&0&1\\1&1&0}\ $, which are $\ -1,-1,2\ $, and a complete set of eigenvectors, which can be taken to be
$$
\pmatrix{1\\-1\\0}, \pmatrix{0\\-1\\1}\ \text{ and }\ \pmatrix{1\\1\\1}\ .
$$
These allow you to diagonalise the matrix thus
$$
\pmatrix{1&0&1\\-1&-1&1\\0&1&1}^{-1}\pmatrix{0&1&1\\1&0&1\\1&1&0} \pmatrix{1&0&1\\-1&-1&1\\0&1&1}=\pmatrix{-1&0&0\\0&-1&0\\0&0&2}\ .
$$
This, if you put
$$
z= \pmatrix{1&0&1\\-1&-1&1\\0&1&1}^{-1}\pmatrix{x\\y\\u}\ ,
$$
you can write your differential equations in the form
\begin{align}
\frac{dz}{ds}=& \pmatrix{1&0&1\\-1&-1&1\\0&1&1}^{-1}\pmatrix{0&1&1\\1&0&1\\1&1&0} \pmatrix{1&0&1\\-1&-1&1\\0&1&1}z\\
=& \pmatrix{-1&0&0\\0&-1&0\\0&0&2}z\ ,
\end{align}
which have solutions
\begin{align}
z_1&=Ae^{-s}\\
z_2&=Be^{-s}\\
z_3&=Ce^{2s}\ ,
\end{align}
and so we get
\begin{align}
\pmatrix{x\\y\\u}&= \pmatrix{1&0&1\\-1&-1&1\\0&1&1}z\ \text{, or}\\
\\
x&=Ae^{-s}+Ce^{2s}\\
y&=Ce^{2s}-(A+B) e^{-s}\ ,\text{ and}\\
u&=B e^{-s}+Ce^{2s}\ .
\end{align}