We want to show that for small $|x|$,
$$(1+x)^{-2}\approx 1-2x$$
Equivalently,
$$(1+x)^2(1-2x)\approx 1$$
Now,
$$\begin{align}
&(1+x)^2(1-2x)\\
&=(1+2x+x^2)(1-2x)\\
&=1+2x+x^2-2x-4x^2-2x^3\\
&=1-3x^2-2x^3\\
\end{align}$$
When $x$ is sufficiently small, we can ignore the $x^2$ and $x^3$ terms.
Also,
$$\frac1{(1+x)^2}
= \frac{1-2x}{1-3x^2-2x^3}$$
Once again, for small $x$ we can ignore the higher powers of $x$, so the denominator of the RHS is very close to $1$.
If we look at the graphs of these functions, we can see that the line $y=1-2x$ is tangent to the curve $y=(1+x)^{-2}$ at $(0, 1)$.

So the slope of the curve at $(0, 1)$ is $-2$. When you learn calculus, you will learn how to find the slope of a tangent at a point on a curve. But here's a "sneak preview". Let's find the slope $m$ of the line through $(0, 1)$ and $(x, 1/(1+x)^2)$ for some small $x$.
$$m=\frac{1-1/(1+x)^2}{x}$$
$$m=\frac{-2-x}{(1+x)^2}$$
As $x$ gets close to $0$, $m$ gets close to $-2$.
FWIW, we can find the series
$$\frac1{(1+x)^2}=1-2x+3x^2-4x^3+5x^4-6x^5+\dots$$
which is valid for $|x|<1$, using polynomial long division.
$$\begin{align}
&\underline{1-2x+3x^2-\dots}\\
1+2x+x^2)&1\\
&\underline{1+2x+x^2}\\
&-2x-x^2\\
&\underline{-2x-4x^2-2x^3}\\
&3x^2+2x^3\\
&\underline{3x^2+6x^3+3x^4}\\
&-4x^3-3x^4\\
\end{align}$$
Etc.
And we can verify it by multiplication:
$$\begin{array}{r|rrrrrrr}
1 & 1 & -2x & +3x^2 & -4x^3 & +5x^4 & -6x^5 & \dots\\
2x & & 2x & -4x^2 & +6x^3 & -8x^4 & +10x^5 & \dots\\
x^2 & & & x^2 & -2x^3 & +3x^4 & -4x^5 & \dots\\ \end{array}$$