The relation $xRy$ on the set $\mathbb{Z}$ if $x + y$ is divisible by $3$.
$xRx = x + x = 2x$. In order to $2x$ be divisible by $3$, $x$ itself need to be divisible by $3$, it is not a problem is it?
$xRy = yRx$
$xRy = yRz = xRz$
I think the last two are immediate, so probably my error is in the first.