I have an exceedingly simple question, but something that has been eating at me for some time now. Imagine that we wish to perform subtraction of objects with the same units, say \$. I have a total of 10\$, composed of 5\$ of my own money, and 5\$ of my brother's. My brother then requests his money back (which I have identified by markings on the bills), and I have left $$ 10\$-5\$=5\$ $$
Imagine, however, that I had not identified my brother's portion of the money, and had jumbled it all up. My brother asks for his money back, and again, he receives $5\$,$but not necessarily his own money. I understand there is no difference in the quantity of money he receives- what is the property of arithmetic/objects that renders these two values the same? In which case is there an appreciable difference between these two values? If not, why is there no difference, even though we intuitively understand there to be one?
Many thanks!