It is often advertised that affine connections are a way to differentiate a vector field along another (see e.g. here). For the little I know, Lie derivatives are advertised in the same way. On a more or less intuitive level, what distinguishes the two notions? Below is a possible answer that I couldn't formally verify.
Let $M$ be a smooth manifold and $X$, $Y$ be two smooth vector fields on $M$. Naively, the "derivative of $Y$ along $X$ at a point $p$" is $$ \lim_{\epsilon \rightarrow 0} \frac{Y_{p + \epsilon X_p} - Y_p}{\epsilon} . $$ But of course, $p + \epsilon X_p$ doesn't make sense. Furthermore, $Y_p$ and $Y_{p'}$ don't live in the same tangent space if $p \neq p'$. The idea with Lie derivative is to consider the flow $\theta$ of $X$ as a mediator: $$ (L_X Y)_p = \lim_{\epsilon \rightarrow 0} \frac{(d \theta_{-\epsilon}) Y_{\theta_\epsilon (p)} - Y_p}{\epsilon} . $$ Based on this, maybe $(\nabla_X Y)_p$ does the same thing, but instead of mediating with the derivative of the flow of $X$, it uses parallel transport along a (arbitrary) curve passing through $p$ with speed $X_p$?
Could you clarify the situation for me?
Thanks in advance.