Here I have the following definition of $\exists ! (x,y) P(x,y)$:
$$\exists x \exists y[P(x,y) \land \lnot \exists u \exists v (P (u,v) \land (u \neq x \lor v \neq y))]$$
Are that formula equivalent to $\exists ! x \exists ! yP(x,y)$ ?
I'm using that $\exists ! xP(x)$ is equivalent to:
$$\exists x (P(x) \land \lnot \exists u (P(u) \land u \neq x)$$
I could not prove them equivalent, but don't know how to prove that it's not equivalent.