Let $Y = \sum_{i=1}^\infty |X_i|$. Apply the monotone convergence theorem to the partial sums $\sum_{i=1}^n |X_i|$ to show that $E[Y] = \sum_{i=1}^\infty E|X_i| < \infty$. In other words, let $Y_n = \sum_{i=1}^n |X_i|$. The random variables $Y_n$ are nonnegative and monotone increasing, and their pointwise limit is $Y$. So the monotone convergence theorem lets us conclude that $\lim_{n \to \infty} E[Y_n] = E[Y]$. But by linearity of expectation over finite sums, we have $E[Y_n] = \sum_{i=1}^n E|X_i|$. So we have shown
$$\lim_{n \to \infty} \sum_{i=1}^n E|X_i| = E[Y]$$
which is exactly what it means to say that
$$\sum_{i=1}^\infty E|X_i| = E[Y].$$
Now apply the dominated convergence theorem to the partial sums $\sum_{i=1}^n X_i$, noting that they are all dominated by $Y$. That is, similarly to what was done above, let $S_n = \sum_{i=1}^n X_n$ be the partial sum without the absolute values. The fact that $E[Y] < \infty$ means in particular that $Y < \infty$ almost surely, which is to say that almost surely, the series $\sum_{i=1}^\infty X_i$ converges absolutely. This means that the sequence $S_n$ converges almost surely to some $S$, which we might as well call $S = \sum_{i=1}^\infty X_i$. Now by the triangle inequality, for each $n$ we have $|S_n| \le \sum_{i=1}^n |X_i| \le Y$, so the sequence $S_n$ is dominated by the integrable random variable $Y$. By dominated convergence we conclude $E[S_n] \to E[S]$.
On the other hand, by linearity of expectation for finite sums, we have $E[S_n] = \sum_{i=1}^n E[X_i]$. So we have shown
$$\lim_{n \to \infty} \sum_{i=1}^n E[X_i] = E[S] = E\left[\sum_{i=1}^\infty X_i\right]$$
which is precisely the desired statement.