Let $f$ be differentiable on $(a,b),$ then $f'(x)= \lim_{h \rightarrow 0} \frac{f(x+h)-f(x-h)}{2h}$
I used that $\frac{f(x+h)-f(x-h)}{h}=\frac{f(x+h)-f(x)}{h} + \frac{f(x-h) + f(x)}{h}$ So
$$\lim_{h \rightarrow 0} \frac{f(x+h)-f(x-h)}{2h}=\frac{1}{2} \left( \lim_{h \rightarrow 0}\frac{f(x+h)-f(x)}{h} + \lim_{h \rightarrow 0}\frac{-f(x-h) + f(x)}{h} \right)$$
The first limit is $f'(x)$, and for the second: because $f$ is differentiable the left sided limit equals the right sided limit, so i can change $h$ to $-a$ and get
\begin{align} & \lim_{h \rightarrow 0}\frac{f(x-h)+f(x)}{h}=\lim_{-a \rightarrow 0} \frac{-f(x+a)+f(x)}{-a} \\ = {} & \lim_{-a \rightarrow 0}\frac{-f(x+a)+f(x)}{-a} = \lim_{-a \rightarrow 0}\frac{f(x+a)-f(x)}{a}=f'(x) \end{align}
Now I wanted to know if the opposite direction also holds. So if $f'(x)= \lim_{h \rightarrow 0} \frac{f(x+h)-f(x-h)}{2h}$, then $f$ is differentiable. I tried to write $f'(x)= \lim_{h \rightarrow 0} \frac{f(x+h)-f(x-h)}{2h}$ as $$\frac{1}{2}(\lim_{\rightarrow 0}\frac{f(x+h)-f(x)}{h}+ \lim_{-a \rightarrow 0}\frac{f(x+a)-f(x)}{a})$$ but i cant conclude that $$\lim_{\rightarrow 0}\frac{f(x+h)-f(x)}{h}=\lim_{-a \rightarrow 0} \frac{f(x+a)-f(x)}{a}$$
Edit: The anwser is that this does not hold (for counterexample see comments). To mention is that from the existance of $lim(x+y)$ the existance of $lim (x)$ and $lim (y)$ does not follow